Erotic Rope Bondage is a powerful way to create intimacy between people. The two fundamental principles are tension and connection. When you tie, it is very important that you keep the tension on the rope, because the tension is how your body and your partner’s remain connected. Bondage need not be beautiful and perfect for it to feel alive and to give pleasure. For it to go deep, it’s not necessary for the rope to turn you on.
When tying or being tied, you feel your pleasure/displeasure, fear, anger and all the nuances of the rich pallet of human feelings…and you take to heart what is there. And this can have a healing aspect.