If you don’t feel safe, you can’t open up or connect deeply with yourself or with another. Co-Regulation is one of the most profound and effective ways to learn to feel safe with someone else.

Negotiation is a key part of practicing BDSM. In this post we give some tips about negotiation and illustrate it with a video of us negotiating and then playing.

The Hitachi Magic Wand is a very powerful tool to create arousal. In this post Peter and Natalia talk about the role the Hitachi Magic Wand Plays in their sex life.

For anal play we follow Jack Morin’s rule: NO PAIN EVER. In this post we give a few tips for safe and blissful anal explorations.

Sharing the porn we like with people we trust is one of the simplest and most powerful things we can do to confront shame around sexuality. In this post we talk about how to do that.

Joseph Kramer believes that we make better decisions when we listen to our breath and our bodies. In this video, he takes us on a journey into the ecstatic possibilities of the breath.

How can we allow the fire of grief to become a medicine that transforms us? Do we dare to be heart-broken, to let the things we experience deeply touch us?

Sexually permissive spaces present rich opportunities for women to explore their eroticism and become sexually empowered and realised.

Many men have difficulty getting their sexual needs met. Here are some things you can do to have more fun and grow into a more sexually-realised man

Opening your relationship can be empowering and transformative. But how do you do it safely and respectfully? Here are some tips for starting the process.

I asked the Erotic Living team what made them so passionate about this work. In this article I share what I discovered.

Our work enables you to express and explore your eroticism, deepen your compassion, connect with your vulnerability and question the way you think about life.