Cecilia Barker has been a member of Erotic Living since July 2019. She is a fetishist, trained chef, tantra enthusiast, performer, dominatrix and sex worker. 

She believes in the potential for play to expand our minds, bring a new outlook to other aspects of life, and present new opportunities to explore hidden aspects of the self. Her most recent exploration has been into the sensuous pleasures of sploshing, and the fun and intimacy playing with our food brings us. To her, the societal prejudice against the intermingling of fun, eroticism and the taboo are worth pushing against.  

Cecilia brings her experience as a sex worker and time working as a dominatrix into her practice of tantra. For her, mindfulness is kink and kink is a space of growth and development. She seeks to always learn and find new avenues for expression, from the most primal parts of ourselves to the abstracted play-acting of the roles we adopt. Her performances and play both come from a place of authenticity and connection, acting as the focal point for voyeurs and turning the lense back onto them as their initial reactions are pushed against. What is eroticism? How does another’s definition influence our own? What can be learnt with an open mind?"