The Joy of Communication with Roger Butler

OR Good Negotiation = Great Sex!  

OR How Words Can Give You Much Better Sex

OR How to Negotiate Scenes for Perfection

OR Communication: Your Number One Sex Move

The 'Consent Card' is a small plastic card with all the questions you need to ask to ensure that your play goes as well as it possibly can.  This workshop takes your through all 17 questions (including a couple of activities along the way), and gives you a real live experience of thoroughly negotiating a scene.  You also get a free Consent Card to carry in your wallet / purse / back-pocket / submissive!  Prepare to be amazed at how much better your play gets.

Peter Banki

What We Believe In

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EMBODIMENT

Partner with your body and your breath every day!

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RESPECT

Make requests, never demands! Resist all forms of coercion - especially self-coercion.

DIVERSITY

Vive la différence! Celebrate the differences in people and their tastes.

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COURAGE

Partner with your fears! Let them teach you courage and strength.

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AESTHETICS & PHILOSOPHY

Cultivate the erotic artist in you! And dare to reflect on what you are doing and why!

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PLAY AND MISCHIEF

Add some spice to it! Stay true to who and what turns you on! And be free!