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The Sexiness of Risk


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Too many of us today are terrified of taking risks, having been indoctrinated by our culture to desire as much security as possible.

Risk, philosophers say, is an antidote to trauma. For if trauma captures the future in such a way that our present becomes modelled on past experiences, a line of risk opens the possibility of the new, the unknown.

To heal, we actually need to take risks.

But to do so intelligently and beautifully, we need not only support from others we trust, but also a sustained practice of self-connection, internal listening, what the polyvagal people call interoception and neuroception.

Alessandra Massi and Peter Banki invite you on a journey of erotic mindfulness to help you find the courage and energy to take the risks that are uniquely yours.

Dance, costume, role play, embodiment, sensuality, breath and time are some of the tools we use.

Sometimes it is not so much going towards an other that is truly risky, but allowing ourselves to feel ourselves and be seen, without stopping at the taboos imposed about how we think we’re supposed to be or act.

How can I not let fear of rejection rule me?

How can I find the courage to fall? And then get up again?

How can I cultivate myself for who I might be rather than who I am?

Feeling alive is not a given, it is a task.

Here are the details

The Sexiness of Risk: A Journey of Erotic Mindfulness with Alessandra Massi and Peter Banki

When? Saturday & Sunday, 24-25 August, 3-7pm

Where? Brandx, 36 Burton Street, Darlinghurst

Cost? $149 (Early Bird until mid-night August 5, $199 thereafter, EL Members free)


About the Workshop:
Alessandra Massi and Peter Banki have curated a unique event that embraces the thrilling allure of risk, fusing it with pleasure, sensuality, and personal exploration. This workshop goes beyond societal norms, encouraging participants to venture beyond their comfort zones and embrace the unknown.


What to Expect:
During this workshop, we will guide you through a series of thought-provoking discussions, practical exercises, and empowering activities to help you tap into the sexiness of risk. Through an open, supportive environment, we aim to:


1. Expand your Boundaries: Explore the edges of your desires and establish healthy boundaries that challenge and excite.
2. Trust and Communication: Understand the importance of trust and effective communication in navigating risky situations, opening new pathways for intimacy.
3. Enhance Erotic Adventure: Discover how calculated risks can add sizzle and excitement to your intimate encounters, transforming them into unforgettable memories.
4. Overcome Fear and Shame: Address any fears or concerns you may have around embracing risk in your sexual life, unlocking the potential for personal growth and empowerment.
5. Consent and Safety: Create a solid foundation of consensual exploration, ensuring everyone's safety and comfort throughout the journey.


Who Should Attend:
This workshop welcomes the brave, regardless of gender, relationship status, or sexual orientation, who are curious to explore the uncharted territory of risk in a safe and judgment-free environment. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just starting to dip your toes into the sea of sensuality, this workshop is open to all who wish to embrace the allure of risk and heighten their (erotic) lives.


Join Us:
Are you ready to embark on a thrilling journey of self-discovery and sexual liberation? Reserve your spot today and experience the intoxicating beauty of the sexiness of risk. Limited spaces are available, so don't miss this opportunity to immerse yourself in an experience that will forever transform your understanding of pleasure and desire.

When? Saturday & Sunday, 24-25 August, 3-7pm

Where? Brandx, 36 Burton Street, Darlinghurst

Cost? $149 (Early Bird until August 5, $199 thereafter, EL Members free)

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