When people think about BDSM, tying, whipping and other implements usually come to mind. However, there are other dimensions of BDSM, which are more psychological.

Erotic humiliation is one such dimension. It is a consensual activity, whereby one person gains arousal or erotic excitement from the mixed and powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned. The humiliation need not be sexual in itself: as with many other sexual activities, it is the emotions that are aroused which matter, regardless of what’s happening physically.

Humiliation can be verbal or physical, and can be private or public. Often it’s ritualized, and unlike some forms of erotic play, it can also be performed long distance or online.

In this workshop we invite you to explore erotic humiliation as a consensual activity. Peter and Natalia perform aspects of their own relationship and then propose scores to help you to explore the beauty of humiliation in couples and threes.