Episode 5: Living Otherwise with Dini Martinez

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In the middle of the pandemic Dini Martinez decided to leave Sydney, Australia and relocate herself and family to live on a boat off the coast of Panama.

Why? Why would one do this?

In a very resolute and maybe inspiring way, Dini has decided to live her life in a way that questions how most of us live with houses, jobs, mortgages, school, etc.

I met Dini recently at an erotic festival and we had a lovely connection. I wanted to learn more about how she thinks.

For many years she has been a yoga and tantra practitioners. She lives in an open relationship with her husband and they have three young children.

I imagined she might be able to help us to learn more about what it might be to live erotically.

In this podcast, we discuss:

  • how you can only serve others well if you also live your life authentically for yourself

  • how and why one would choose to live in an open relationship

  • how important is money

  • how we can educate children alternatively

  • how we heal our lineages and engage with our families, who might not understand or reject how we choose to live our lives

Episode 4: Seven Steps to Building an Erotic Business

“The feeling is what matters the most, more than the money. But the money also matters. Your soul work is inseparable from asking for and paying money.”
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In this podcast, Erotic Living founder Peter Banki talks about how you can build a sustainable erotic business from what you’re passionate about.

Gently dispelling the myths that hamper people from getting started, Peter offers seven highly-practical tips to enable you to begin creating something today.

Informed by more than a decade as a creator and educator in the field, this podcast is an invaluable first step towards building an aligned and sustainable erotic business.

If listening to the podcast makes you feel excited, check out the Business Boudoir for more in-depth and bespoke mentoring support with Peter.

Happy listening!

Episode 3: The Role of Trauma in Erotic Education

“Any experience that overwhelms us, that exceeds our capacities as subjects, can be considered traumatic. Part of trauma is not knowing if it is positive or negative.”

We sit down with Rog from Curious Creatures to talk:

Polyvagal Theory.

Conscious s-x and kink education.

The different types of trauma.

First hand experiences in how to approach a trauma response in a workshop setting.

To learn more about Curious Creatures visit: curiouscreatures.biz

Also, make sure to join us at the next Sydney Festival of Erotic Living. Here is the link to register: eroticliving.net/erotic-living-festival-2021

Playing for a New World: the EL Professional Training Program, will begin on March 1. Here is the link book in a call with Peter: eroticliving.as.me

Happy listening!

Show Links:

Curious Creatures

Episode 2: Friendly Rivalry with Ron van Twuiver

“Friendly rivalry... that’s how everybody should live their life instead of being in jealousy”
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Friendly Rivalry Between Men

In this week’s episode, Peter Banki will have a conversation with Ron van Twuiver about Friendly Rivalry Between Men.

Ron is a Dutch born dancer and tantra practitioner, and sexuality event organiser, who lives in the Byron Bay region of NSW, Australia.

Show Links:

Learn about Ron in Erotic Living

Episode 1: A Thousand Faces of Dr. Diva

“All we do in this Erotic field connects to our whole reality that means when we open up a door to something new, our reality changes.”
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In this episode, Berlin-based actor and sex educator, Dr.Diva, tells why it is helpful to think of yourself as having many different faces and realities. You can cultivate your erotic life by cultivating different personas, which you can bring out in different contexts. "Changing reality is much easier than you think. If you think there is only one true self, you exclude all the others."

What We Believe In

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EMBODIMENT

Partner with your body and your breath every day!

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RESPECT

Make requests, never demands! Resist all forms of coercion - especially self-coercion.

DIVERSITY

Vive la différence! Celebrate the differences in people and their tastes.

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COURAGE

Partner with your fears! Let them teach you courage and strength.

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AESTHETICS & PHILOSOPHY

Cultivate the erotic artist in you! And dare to reflect on what you are doing and why!

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PLAY AND MISCHIEF

Add some spice to it! Stay true to who and what turns you on! And be free!