Welcome to Erotic Living

Thanks for being curious and brave. We appreciate you reaching out to us.

To learn more how to interact at our festivals, listen to the audio recording below on How to Navigate Spaces of Permission

It addresses questions such as:

  • How do you get the most out of coming to an EL Festival?

  • How do you manage any anxiety you may have before attending?

  • What do you wear for the Magical Space?

Part of the reason why we are attracted to such events is that they take us out of our comfort zone. They put us in a place where we can feel vulnerable...but the rewards can be really lovely...and hot.

Enjoy listening and reading! It may change your whole way of living.

In Love and Lust,

Peter Banki, Ph.D.

Director, Erotic Living

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What We Believe In

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EMBODIMENT

Partner with your body and your breath every day!

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RESPECT

Make requests, never demands! Resist all forms of coercion - especially self-coercion.

DIVERSITY

Vive la différence! Celebrate the differences in people and their tastes.

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COURAGE

Partner with your fears! Let them teach you courage and strength.

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AESTHETICS & PHILOSOPHY

Cultivate the erotic artist in you! And dare to reflect on what you are doing and why!

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PLAY AND MISCHIEF

Add some spice to it! Stay true to who and what turns you on! And be free!